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Pema Chödrön

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When Things Fall Apart

  1. IDEA 1

    Falling apart can teach us

    Chödrön, a Buddhist nun and teacher, suggests that times when life falls apart, through loss, illness or failure, can be opportunities for growth. Instead of rushing to fix or escape them, we can learn from them.

  2. IDEA 2

    Life has no firm ground

    Chödrön describes groundlessness, the realisation that nothing in life is certain or permanent. Accepting this reduces panic. Chödrön suggests that when we stop expecting solid ground, we can relax into whatever comes.

  3. IDEA 3

    Lean into fear

    Chödrön encourages turning towards fear rather than running from it. Facing fear with curiosity can transform it. Chödrön suggests that running from fear usually keeps it alive, while looking at it closely can loosen its hold.

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