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Dale Carnegie

6 key ideas, each explained in our own words.

How to Win Friends and Influence People

  1. IDEA 1

    Don't criticise

    Criticism makes people defensive and rarely changes behaviour. Try to understand why they did what they did.

  2. IDEA 2

    Give honest appreciation

    Sincere praise motivates people. Look for genuine things to appreciate.

  3. IDEA 3

    Be genuinely interested

    Ask questions and listen. People like those who are interested in them.

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