Author
Alain de Botton
12 key ideas across 2 books, each explained in our own words.
The Consolations of Philosophy
- IDEA 1
Socrates, for unpopularity
Being disliked doesn't make you wrong. Judge an idea by its reasons, not by how many people approve.
- IDEA 2
Epicurus, for not enough money
Friends, freedom and an examined life matter more to happiness than wealth.
- IDEA 3
Seneca, for frustration
Anger comes from expectations that are too optimistic. Expect setbacks and you'll be calmer.
Status Anxiety
- IDEA 1
Status anxiety
Worry about how others see us drives much modern unhappiness, often more than material need.
- IDEA 2
Five causes
Lack of love, rising expectations, meritocracy, snobbery and dependence on others' approval feed the anxiety.
- IDEA 3
The cruelty of meritocracy
If success is earned, failure feels deserved. Meritocracy can add shame to misfortune.
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